Fees and paperwork
Giving notice at the register office, the registrar's attendance, certificates, plus a religious or celebrant-led ceremony.
Most budgets do not come apart over the total. They come apart over the question of what one more guest actually costs. This calculator answers both — with no sign-up, no email address, and without a single one of your figures leaving this browser.
Put in your guest count and overwrite every line the moment you have a real quote. Each item has two fields: what it costs regardless of how many people come, and what each additional guest adds.
The figures filled in are rough starting points for the UK and expressly not a statistic: they come from no survey and describe no average. They are there so the calculator does not begin at zero. Replace every one of them with your first real quote — that is when an estimate becomes a budget.
A wedding budget falls into two halves that behave nothing alike. One follows the guest count: food, drink, stationery, table decoration and, in the end, the size of the room you need for all of it. The other costs the same whether thirty people come or a hundred and thirty — the rings, your outfits, the photographer, the band, the fees for the ceremony itself. Throw both halves into one pot and you get a number no decision can be made from.
That is precisely where percentages fail. "Thirty percent for the venue" sounds like a rule, but it does not tell you what happens when you strike ten names off the list — and that is the question actually on the table. So this tool works with two numbers per item rather than a share: a fixed amount and an amount per guest. Out of it comes the one figure a guest list can be discussed against without an argument — what a single invitation costs.
With the starting values above, roughly half the budget follows the guest count. Ten guests fewer therefore do not save you ten percent of the total, but roughly half of that; the rest is settled before the first acceptance arrives. Read the other way round: the fixed items are the faster place to save, because one decision does it. A photographer who covers the ceremony and the hour after rather than sixteen hours is one conversation with one person. Uninviting twenty guests is twenty.
Order matters as much as arithmetic. The venue and the date pull almost everything else behind them: they fix how many people can fit at all, whether you may bring your own caterer or the house supplies it, whether your own drinks are allowed, and how late the music may play. Work a full budget before that decision and you will work it a second time afterwards.
Budgets rarely break on the item that was argued over longest. They break on the many small ones that appear in nobody's quote — because they belong to nobody's quote. Put them in now with a rough number rather than three weeks out with the real one.
Giving notice at the register office, the registrar's attendance, certificates, plus a religious or celebrant-led ceremony.
Service staff, drivers, your witnesses, everyone who worked a day for you.
Mileage and an overnight stay sit in the small print, not in the package price — and they fall due for each supplier separately.
The reception drink, corkage on wine you bring, and the last third of the evening no package covers.
With many caterers it is not part of the menu price, and a cutting or plating charge sometimes comes on top.
Hair and make-up trials, alterations, cleaning the dress and suit afterwards.
A shuttle for guests, your own room on the night, the car for the day.
Final clean, stripping the decoration, returning hired glassware and furniture — usually the morning after and rarely free.
Not extra money, but earlier money. Miss the dates and you do not have a budget problem, you have a scheduling one.
Every item has two fields. The per-guest amount is multiplied by your guest count, the fixed amount is added as it stands, everything is summed, the contingency is added on top and the total is divided by the guest count at the end. Nothing else happens — every line can be checked on a pocket calculator.
Three articles from the magazine that pick up where the calculator stops.
Once the total is settled, the dates are still missing. Our second tool counts backwards from your wedding date to work out when each decision has to be made: Count the timeline backwards
Once the total stands, everything after it hangs on the list: who is invited, who accepts, who is actually at the table in the end. That is exactly where you can carry on — with a wedding website your guests answer on themselves.
Create a wedding website for freeCreating and designing it costs nothing. Sending the invitations and collecting the replies belongs to a package.