Outfit and styling

Dress, suit, hair, make-up and bouquet: choosing, lead times and fittings.

All things wedding

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An introduction

Outfit and styling get started early and still regularly run tight. The reason is rarely indecision but a lead time nobody mentions: a made-to-measure dress, several fittings and alterations take months, not weeks — and the last fitting sensibly sits so close to the date that no major change fits in afterwards.

The second point is order. Clothing, hair, make-up and jewellery hang together: a high neckline takes a different necklace, an up-do a different veil. Decide the pieces separately and you end up correcting the most expensive one — and that is usually not the hair.

The third part is the trial run, which is the thing most often skipped. A trial styling shows not only whether you like something, but how long it takes and what it looks like after eight hours. This section covers both — the search and the appointments before it — and it also covers what gets written about less: that none of this is about being someone else.

Preparing for a wedding dress appointment: making the ninety minutes count

What to settle before a wedding dress appointment, what to bring, who to take with you and how to record dresses so t...

Wedding dress lead time: the latest you can order

A special-order wedding dress takes seven to thirteen months with search, production and alterations. The backwards c...

Finding a wedding dress: the order you decide in

Finding a wedding dress starts with deciding where you buy: boutique, atelier, off the rack, sample, resale or rental...

Wedding hair and make-up: the decisions that are actually pending

Who gets styled, by whom, where and when? Four decisions that set the schedule and the cost of the wedding morning, p...

Explaining the dress code: how your guests know what to wear

A dress code term on its own is never enough. The four details every guest needs, three ready-made wordings, and how...